Friday, February 24, 2017

Reflection #91: Ramblings of an old man



            I admit that this is an over-simplification, but I find there to be an interesting triad to “getting up there in age”.  (Trust me when I tell you that I have the credentials.  I retired 13 years ago, and it wasn’t an early retirement.)   First, we tend to love reminiscing, particularly if we can find a grandchild willing to listen.  “Yes, Tricia, when I was your age, and we made a phone call, we’d pick up the receiver and a lady at the other end would ask what number we were calling, and what our number was.” 
            The second element is being critical of the “modern” ways. “Why, in my day,… blah, blah, blah.  How can kids sign a check, if they don’t know cursive writing?”
            Finally, there is a tendency to think that things will always be as they are now.   It is that last point that prompted this reminiscence about Ignatius in the ‘60’s and ‘70’s.   Recently I was cleaning my closet and I came across a dozen neckties that I wore as a teacher.  I had saved them because I will always need neckties.  After all, the world never changes.   Now I realize that I only need one or two for “state” occasions, so I asked my son, a son-in-law and a grandson, all of whom are in the “business world” if they’d wanted any of them.  No, they don’t wear neckties at work.  What?  What’s happening to the world?
This brings me back to Ignatius.  When I started teaching in 1961, it was a requirement that the boys all wore neckties and sport coats.  I did a little bit of research…looking in old yearbooks…and found that, through the ‘60’s, that rule was in tact, but by the mid-‘70’s, the boys were no longer wearing them.  
                        Another change: A few days ago, as I walked through the halls of the school, I was startled. My first year teaching at 1076 was the first year that the students passed from classroom to classroom to change classes.  The students weren’t allowed to talk during the passing, and the teachers were instructed to stand at our doors to enforce that rule.  Prior to that, the students stayed and the teachers went from room to room.  
            This past Tuesday, students were lining the halls, sitting on benches, sitting on chairs and sitting on the floor…and it was during a class period, and as far as I could tell, things were fine.  Some of the students were talking; others were working on their laptops.    When I passed open classroom doors, there were students sitting at their desks, busily “typing” (is it still called that?) or reading. 
This is NOT a criticism.  It is a simple observation.  Ignatius is still a great school, but the world is a different place now.  There is scant evidence that things are worse than in the “old days”, as my contemporaries are inclined, and/or choose, to believe.  “Why! In my day, those kids would have been hit, jugged, expelled or all three.”

One last observation about how things “use to be”.   Through most of the ‘60’s, no matter what you academic strengths or weaknesses, you were placed in a class with all of the students that scored in the same general range on the entrance exam.  Strong in math, but weak in reading?  You might be placed in the same class as the student who had opposite strengths but had the same overall entrance exam score…and that might last all four years.  Thank heavens, that has been rectified.